Why is it that when you are fighting with every breath to
make your life a successful and fulfilling one, trying to paddle against the
normal harsh winds of hard work, that people feel the need to say mean or
judgmental things to you just to make you feel like giving up? Especially
people whom you once thought that you could trust, that you let into your
world, hoping that they would treat you with respect and dignity that you want
to show them, but that they clearly do not deserve.
People judge each other so harshly that they cannot possibly
see what may truly be going on. They go into situations with preconceived
notions and spit in each other’s faces with out even understanding that the
person they are spitting at has been the person rooting for them the entire time.
In the world today, we have to work five times as hard to
try and get the life that we want, and if you have high goals, then that means
you have to work twenty times as hard. So in that case, you think people might
cut you a break every once in a while. Nope, if you aren’t around for them
every second of every day then that must mean you are blowing them off right?
You just don’t care enough to make an appearance in there life because you have
SO much time on your hands you just can’t get up off the couch? Wrong.
What if by chance, the world was a crazy place and everyone
had to do what ever they could to possibly have the opportunity to make it and
be successful? Oh wait… That is how the world is.
Anyways, my whole ranting and annoying chatter is about to
end, but I would like to share a few helpful words to everyone in the world,
including myself.
BE NICER.
Be kinder, gentler, and more understanding of the people
around you because you honestly have absolutely no idea what they are going
through and spitting in their face or saying hateful or judgmental words will
not only hurt them, but yourself as well.
To quote someone out there, “karma’s a b****,” so if maybe
this time, you give someone a break, or ask what might be the reason they are
doing what they are doing… You may save yourself some heartache in the future.
